“I’m scared to speak up at a meeting. I don’t want to sound stupid.” “I don’t want to risk saying something offensive, so I’ll just listen and say only innocuous things.” “I’m afraid if s/he sees me ...
Why We Develop an “Adapted” Self (and It’s Not Really a Choice) When we’re fresh out of the womb, we’re innocent. Not yet subject to powerful outside influences that inhibit the expression of our ...