Here are six unexpected truths that come from raising twins, especially when their abilities or personalities don’t match in the ways you imagined: 1. One milestone doesn’t belong to both. They don’t hit life at the same pace, and one child’s “first” can quietly become the other’s “reminder.” 2. People compare them more than they ever compare themselves. Strangers see two of the same; twins know exactly how different they are. 3. Each has a version of childhood the other will never fully underst